Huge BFF problem GIRLS ONLY?

Ive fallen for my bff and ive told her my feelings for her but she really likes this other guy and they are great friends but last night @ da movies they held hands but she says that they are just friends i think i'm no longer her bff and i live 20 miles from town so what am i suppose to do oh and she mistakenly sent me a msg to me but it was for the other guy and it said, "but i want you to call me babe" (she called him babe) and when i told her my feelings she said that her mom doesn't want her to have another boyfrend for a while and i just told her last month what should i do im stuck and very confused and tickedoff