What do you think is more important in a relationship?

The first one but this is because I HATE fighting. I cant stand it. But the wait over a year to say I love you is silly. if you dont love them within about 1 month your not ment to be together. A month is a good enough time to know someone. If you dont love them by the time you know them then its a waist of time. BUT thats just my opinion.